Inside My Mind
|Posted on April 17, 2017 at 9:05 AM|
How are we all doing?
I know that most of you were wrapped up in your lovers arm all weekend especially with this rain.
Sweet, sweet, sweet rain!
Anyways, today is not about rain but more about the importance of communication in a relationship.
Specifically, providing feedback to your partner. This is definitely a touchy topic for many as we are not so receptive to constructive criticism.
A friend and I were discussing this and he said he wished women would sometime be open about what they want in the bedroom. Like tell him when put “IT” at a specific place or try doing this instead of that or staying at a specific spot longer than usual.
Even though he wants to hear your opinion, we all know that there is ground rules to this. Be cautious of how you make your points or request. Be sexy with it. Let it come off as a suggestion to benefit both of you and less like a complain that might kill the mood.
In most relationship, the fear is that their partner might not be open to try new things or do something different.
My recommendation, it never hurts to take about sex. Talk about new things and ideas. Try a few occasionally. Two things can happen, you enjoy the experience or fail miserably at it but at least you tried it together.
I can tell you doing the same thing can get boring and weary. I love a little in my relationship once in a while.
So women, tell him that you like it when he finds your spot and stay a few minutes there whether with his “tool” or tongue. (New Era people)
Guys, tell her that you enjoy a little foreplay or when she takes control and play cow girl. Or how she uses her tongue and lick that sweet spot a little.
Be Open about your sex and explore. You won’y regret it.
It might just save your relationship.
Can’t wait to hear your thoughts!